It will be voluntary. You just need about a dozen.
One or two live in mansions. Most are upper middle-class (the prospering children of immigrants). Some still make their way (been there). Some maybe have lost their way (been there and I hope back). Some are young and unafraid (WISH I were there again; now I'm just tired; tired with opportunities, though).
To this fantasy focus group:
What do YOU give away each year?
In the year before Sim One died, our household gave away to charity $125K+. It was a good year financially, for one thing. We had no heirs. Got a big one-time bonus from a software firm. Other benefits converged.
A family recipe I tasted at Thanksgiving in 2022? (Corn drowning in cream, savories and bacon.)
What else might YOU give away over time ... over years ... over and over ... wisdom, knowledge, promise, belief?
Money is not the first responder ... though it's hugely helpful; don't get me wrong!
Personally, I give to express gratitude. Befuddled gratitude. I've had my toes in water dragging me out to sea. Alice's husband Bob's ashes coated my face (ask cousin Johnny; we shared tales).
And still, GIVING to CHARITY: I need a stiff reason.
There are no absolutes. There are no perfect triggers.